your manual says to add this in paypal account .... "http://www.yoursite.com/amember/plugins/payment/paypal_r/ipn.php" But i already have another ipn in my paypal account...and i cannot remove that.. is there anyother way to make this ipn.php work without adding to paypal account ??
In fact, aMember will work in any case, just keep your URL in settings. It is only required that you have PayPal IPN enabled.
Alex, What do you lose if you're not using Paypal IPN? I have a similar situation where a shopping cart program wants to use IPN -- but I'm already using it for aMember. Best, Justin