Wordpress Cutomization

Hello All,

I've an idea how to use the amember and wordpress, but i need some help from expert member here ....

I've wordpress and amember, also my sidebar already have some important thing. I use wordpress plugins and this plugins overwrite all the sidebar and my stuff at sidebar gone and left only amember code ...

So i want to add the code to my sidebar so all my stuff and amember login plugins can put on same sidebar .....
but .....

i don't know where to get the code ??? should i copy all the code from amember wp plugins and put inside my sidebar file ???

Also, can amember assign a random upline if new visitor come to my site from direct link ....

I've the code for amember login box

Code:

<li id="login" class="login">
     <h2><?php _e('Login'); ?></h2>
     <li>This system still under development, please don't try anything<br> until it open for all.</li>
<ul> 
    <form name="loginform" id="loginform" action="/aff/login.php">
<label><?php _e('Login') ?>:<br /><input type="text" name="amember_login" id="log" value="" size="20" tabindex="7" /></label><br />
    <label><?php _e('Password') ?>:<br /> <input type="password" name="amember_pass" id="pwd" value="" size="20" tabindex="8" /></label><br />
    <label><input type="checkbox" name="remember_login" value="1" tabindex="9" /> <?php _e("Remember me"); ?></label><br />
    <input type="submit" name="submit" value="<?php _e('Login'); ?> &raquo;" tabindex="10" />
    <input type="hidden" name="amember_redirect_url" value="<?php echo $_SERVER['REQUEST_URI']; ?>"/>
    </form>
<br>
Not a member yet?<br>
<A HREF="/aff/signup.php">Signup Here</A>
    </ul></li>
<?php
  else:
?>
<li id="login" class="login">
  <h2><?php echo $user_identity; ?></h2>
    <ul>
<li><a href="/aff/member.php" class='mainlevel'>Members Page</a></li>
<li><a href="/aff/profile.php" class='mainlevel'>Edit Profile</a></li>
<li><a href="/aff/logout.php" class='mainlevel'>Logout</a></li>
    </ul>
</li>

but after user login, it forward to my main site and the login box still blank (mean need to login again) ..... how to solve this ?

no one can help me??

I am using aMember and Wordpress together with the wordpress-amember-widget for about a year now and it works like a charm.

There are alsoother users that created widgets and plugins so isn't there one already that does what you want?

I have not ever had one complaint from any of my customers about the widget we use and it keeps everybody logged in and works how it should be. after loggin in it shows your current subscription and because a affiliate is 'just' a member with some extra options he only has to login with the same system. all stuff that members and affiliates have to see are already in the memberspage area.

So what else do you need?
Is your idea different or better or is it just the same?